My daughters had their first tea party about as soon as the younger one could hold a cup. It was Christmas, as I recall, and the oldest of the two had been waiting and planning the event for a very long time.
Before she had a little sister, my oldest daughter, my Amy, had tea parties with her dolls and stuffed animals, the occasional barely willing relative, but she sought an eager second. Her brother was hardly a baby any time. She later told me that she started praying for a baby sister almost as soon as she realized her baby brother was not given to tea parties, dress up and the like.
Much to everyone's surprise (everyone but her, that is) her prayers were answered some five years later. Amy was eight years old when her baby sister was born. She had her own, real live doll and made the most of it. Never more than when Christmas rolled around and it was time to pull out her Christmas cups.
Amy's godfather, a close friend from college, started her collection of Christmas cups for her first Christmas. He kept up the tradition for a few years and then we all began buying pieces for her. By the time the little sister arrived, Amy had enough pieces to set a pretty table. And set the table she did. She has been setting the table every Christmas since.
At some point she decided to the Beatrix Potter tea set her Nana and Granddaddy had given her pieces of for Easter through the years to host a Spring tea party for her youngest sibling.
There have been tea party birthdays and Girl Scout tea parties. There have been various guests and events with tea party themes. Once, on vacation in Williamsburg, Virginia, the girls attended an American Girl Tea Party dressed in colonial period clothing.
Amy's love of tea parties has not waned. Her "baby" sister is now 22 years old. Even during her college years she planned her schedule around the annual Christmas and Easter tea parties.
One of the first things Amy said, upon becoming an aunt was "this means more of us for tea."
It has also meant more tea more often. Last weekend, there was a small "Mother's Day Tea."
A tea party for Valentine's Day is now a given. Usually, there are a couple, at least, in the fall.
Sometimes they are inside and sometimes outside. Sometimes they are dress up events and sometimes they are casual. Sometimes the table decorations are rather elaborate and sometimes quite plain. The menu varies.
A snow day is the perfect excuse for a tea party in the front of the fireplace. Any time, in Amy's opinion, is a good time for a tea party. It is one tradition that is being kept in good stead.
Tuesday, May 22, 2012
Tuesday, May 15, 2012
"From right out of a spy novel"
Departure time for our flight out of Venice was circa 7 a.m. Since it is/was an international flight, we had to be at the airport two hours early, to get through customs, etc. Add in the half an hour it would take to get to the airport by boat from the water door nearest our hotel and you will have the explanation we were given of why we were to be in the hotel lobby by 4 a.m. to meet our escort/guide.
That meant we were setting an alarm for three o'clock.
It was not fun. And it was not pretty. But it was necessary.None of us are morning people. We are especially not three in the morning, morning people.
That meant we were setting an alarm for three o'clock.
It was not fun. And it was not pretty. But it was necessary.None of us are morning people. We are especially not three in the morning, morning people.
It took us a while to wake up. Fortunately, we'd packed the night before. The walk to the water door was a quiet one. The only sound was the click click clicking of our bags as we wheeled them over the cobblestone streets. The wait for the water taxi was brief. The boat driver, unlike the gondolier, was helpful as we boarded and he stowed our bags for the trip through the darkness to the airport. The ride through Venice was quite beautiful with her lights reflecting on the water and it was also quiet. For the longest time, there was no talking at all.
Then there came a voice from somewhere in the cabin of the boat that said "doesn't this feel just like something from right out of a spy novel?!"
And it did. It was very 007ish.
Leave it to my Baby Sister to sum it up, liven things up and make things fun... even as tired as we were, as early as it was, and as sad as we were to be reaching the end of our trip of a lifetime.
my first travel photo album
The trip to Italy with my sisters seems to have liberated and enthused me in a number of ways. Not only have I completed the blog but also an online photo album. The link to the album can be found below. If you are not complete saturated with images and information of our trip, feel free to check it out. The photo credits belong to me and the middle sister... mostly the middle sister.
http://travel.webshots.com/album/582803517HDHUTU
http://travel.webshots.com/album/582803517HDHUTU
Oochie
My sisters and I did not have a single cross word in on our recent trip to Italy.
Not that we ever do. Not anymore. We do occasionally disagree, we don't get angry with each other (or if we do, we don't stay that way.)
Maybe we got it out of our systems when we were kids. There were days, back then, when we had nothing but cross words for and with each other. And when we fought, we fought for blood. Seriously.
Usually the fights were the product of me laughing at them for something.
One of them was allergic to tomatoes. and poison ivy. and many other things. I thought her rashes were funny. She did not appreciate my humor.
One of them had chronic ear infections. One of them was clumsy. All of these things I found funny.
But not any more.
That is because, in the words of my Grandma McKenzie (and that illustrious poetic Justin Timberlake) what goes around. comes around.
I never had earraches as a child. But I have one now. A bad one. I am worried because the last one I had, not all that long ago, lasted three months. It is not funny. And worse. The sister I laughed at has been sending me sweet get well messages.
Last Spring I fell in the parking lot of the baseball parking lot due to a combination of ear infection/vertigo and getting my feet tangled up in an overly long purse strap. I was carrying the grandchild of my sister who had the childhood clumsies at the time. I rolled up on the baby and she received only slight injury. I felt horrible about it. I also tore up my knees and ruined my best khaki pants.
I used to chase my allergic sister with poison ivy. Now I can see it in a book and rash up.
When we were in Italy, I went to step into a gondola and went tumbling. The gondolier, who was too busy smoking a cigarette to offer me a hand in, looked up and said "Oochie!" I don't know what "Oochie" means, (and I am not even sure that is how it is spelled) all I know for sure is that it made me as mad as a wet hen.
My sisters who were witnesses, must have felt some sense of satisfaction. Now they know I know how they felt when I laughed at them.
It isn't funny.
Not that we ever do. Not anymore. We do occasionally disagree, we don't get angry with each other (or if we do, we don't stay that way.)
Maybe we got it out of our systems when we were kids. There were days, back then, when we had nothing but cross words for and with each other. And when we fought, we fought for blood. Seriously.
Usually the fights were the product of me laughing at them for something.
One of them was allergic to tomatoes. and poison ivy. and many other things. I thought her rashes were funny. She did not appreciate my humor.
One of them had chronic ear infections. One of them was clumsy. All of these things I found funny.
But not any more.
That is because, in the words of my Grandma McKenzie (and that illustrious poetic Justin Timberlake) what goes around. comes around.
I never had earraches as a child. But I have one now. A bad one. I am worried because the last one I had, not all that long ago, lasted three months. It is not funny. And worse. The sister I laughed at has been sending me sweet get well messages.
Last Spring I fell in the parking lot of the baseball parking lot due to a combination of ear infection/vertigo and getting my feet tangled up in an overly long purse strap. I was carrying the grandchild of my sister who had the childhood clumsies at the time. I rolled up on the baby and she received only slight injury. I felt horrible about it. I also tore up my knees and ruined my best khaki pants.
I used to chase my allergic sister with poison ivy. Now I can see it in a book and rash up.
When we were in Italy, I went to step into a gondola and went tumbling. The gondolier, who was too busy smoking a cigarette to offer me a hand in, looked up and said "Oochie!" I don't know what "Oochie" means, (and I am not even sure that is how it is spelled) all I know for sure is that it made me as mad as a wet hen.
My sisters who were witnesses, must have felt some sense of satisfaction. Now they know I know how they felt when I laughed at them.
Monday, May 14, 2012
What I will remember about Venice
Venice: Regal and Serene
Except for the street gypsies hawking their wares and the bells chiming from the tall clock in the square, the music playing from various buildings and sidewalk cafes, were the only real noises I noticed. Rome was noisy, especially from traffic. There are no cars. None. All of the traffic in Venice is on the water and did not carry so much, into the heart of the city or the piazza where we spent most of our time.
I tried to record the sound of the bells to use as a ringtone on my phone but the voices of the gypsies interupted this attempt. Later, I tried to record the sound of opera music, an aria, I believe, but again, to no avail. These were serious salesman, determined that we should by their wares...some lighted whirly gig type objects they wanted way too much for.
Abandoning the idea of recording the sounds of bells or opera music, we decided to spend out last few hours in Venice gathering souvenirs for our families.
Our seach (for Souvenirs and a place to buy them):
On my birthday, just one month before we were to depart for Italy, we watched a travel video about Venice. One of the things that struck me was the narrator saying, "you will get lost in Venice. Plan on it."
What we didn't plan on is how difficult it would be to find our way back to places we had been. Case in point: during our walking tour with a guide, we spied a fabulous little toy store in an out of the way piazza and wrote down the address so we could return later in the day and look for things to take home for our grandbabies.
We got directions at our hotel, at the post office, from a street vendor, a waiter...but never could find our way back to the toy store we'd seen.
While we were looking for the toy store, a woman ran up to us and said, in a tone we all recognized, "Bambina." The truth is. she said other stuff we did not understand but what matters is that we understood that somewhere nearby there was a little girl lost. She was frantic, as any mother of a lost child would be. We've all known that feeling and so we spread out and started helping her search. After what seemed like a long time, an older child, who we decided was the brother to the lost child began to shout from the backside of a restaurant. I advised that since the child had been located, we return to our own search lest we witness an Italian spanking. Later, the Mama passed us, the brother still tattle telling on the little sister, who was crying as she peddled along on a scooter, as fast as her chubby little legs would take her.
Last dinner in Italy at a cafe
The Hard Rock Cafe
It was quite dark and raining by the time we finished dinner. As we made our way back to the hotel, we were accosted, once again, by the noisy street gypsies. I kept walking. The middle sister kept walking. The baby sister, did not keeping walking. I learned this when a voice from behind me began calling my name. "Come here. Come back," the voice said. It was not the voice of my sister. It was not even a female voice. It was the deep, thick accented voice of one of the street gypsies.
Street Gypsy.
There is nothing quite like being summoned by name by a street gypsy in a foriegn country. "Hello" he called to me. "These are for you!" I turned around to find him running toward me, waving a hand full of the whirly gigs at me. The baby sister was just behind him, laughing hysterically. She later tried to one up me by telling me how much more I paid for the things than she did.
I did not care and I told her so. "I did not pay him for his whatnots, I paid him to go away and stop yelling my name across Venice."
In Venice, the merchants were eager to make a sale, unlike their Roman counterparts. In Rome, it seems to us that for the most part, the shopkeepers really weren't too about making a sale.
Not that they were pushy (all except for the gypsies, that is...) Quite the opposite.The seemed laid back and happy. Content, I would call it...
The Contented Venetians
They have adapted to their way of life quite nicely. St. Mark's Basilica has its electricity for one hour a day. This is just an accepted fact in Venice. No one seems to mind. They work around it.
The Conservationist Venetians
Sunday, May 13, 2012
A good time was had by all...the end.
Architectural elements
My alma mater, Louisiana Tech University, has had, for many years, a summer study program in Rome. Would be architects, in particular, signed up for "Tech Rome" as I recall. Now I know why. The buildings and other structures are pretty amazing especially considering the time and tools of their creation.
The classic designs abound causing gorgeous things to be even more, well, gorgeous.
One of my favorite designs, Egg and Dart, was prevalent in Rome and in Venice.
I am rather inspired to incorporate the egg and dart pattern into a new set of notecards... just as soon as I learn how to tranfer images onto paper...
The classic designs abound causing gorgeous things to be even more, well, gorgeous.
One of my favorite designs, Egg and Dart, was prevalent in Rome and in Venice.
ancient egg and dart in the forum |
egg and dart on a column in venice |
I am rather inspired to incorporate the egg and dart pattern into a new set of notecards... just as soon as I learn how to tranfer images onto paper...
Pretty Things in Venice
Earlier I blogged about how pretty the buildings and the canals and the architecture in Venice are. But I failed to mention, that pretty things are exactly everywhere one looks in this unique city on the water. Some examples...
The Candy and Confections
(decisions, decisions...)
Linens and Textiles
(who could decide?)
Artisian dried flower arrangements
(this one was in our hotel)
Lanterns, awnings and other fixtures on the buildings
Shop windows
(This one was an antiques shop)
(This one was an antiques shop)
Wallpaper
(this, again, in our hotel)
Very Venetian
Buon appetito!
I intended the watch at least the first part of the film "Eat, Pray, Love" where the character played by Julia Roberts lives for a time in Italy, learning the Italian language and eating Italian food. Having never met a piece of bread I didn't like and being quite partial to pasta, I thought it would be fun to make a list of the things she ate in the movie and then cross them as we tried/consumed them. I never got around to making the list.
A friend recommended that I tried gnocchi. I was already a fan of gelato, so I had a list of two things on my Italian to get list.
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Certainly, the food was on display. Some it on ice, right in carts near the entrance to the restaurants.
The places where one gets to enjoy the bounty of Italy are likewise delicious! Below are just three examples:
A friend recommended that I tried gnocchi. I was already a fan of gelato, so I had a list of two things on my Italian to get list.
A quick repast between sights... |
A waiter recommended this mascarpone-based dessert to us. It was as yummy as he said it would be! |
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A lovely mushroom pizza! |
Certainly, the food was on display. Some it on ice, right in carts near the entrance to the restaurants.
The places where one gets to enjoy the bounty of Italy are likewise delicious! Below are just three examples:
Windows, doors, arches and bridges in Venice
I found myself taking random pictures of doors and windows, arches and bridges in Venice and since I have them, I might as well post them...
You could spend all day just looking at arches over doors and windows and bridges in Venice, especially in Piazza San Marco and the Palace of the Doge. |
Gothic influence abounds in Venice and no where more than on window pediments. |
There were even arched water doors in Venice. |
Arch of one of the smaller bidges in Venice. |
Another water door, this one unadorned. |
Grand entrances in Venice are made waterside so as to make a pretty view from the canals. |
There is nothing plain about Venetian windows; at least not those visible from the water. |
Can't you just hear a voice calling, "Romeo, Romeo, wherefore art thou, Romeo?!" from this window?
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Pretty, pretty window boxes overhang a quiet canal. |
A balustrade facing the ducal palace. |
A balustrade along the Grand Canal in Venice. |
I really enjoyed looking at all the figurals and busts mounted above the doors and windows along the back canals during our gondola ride. |
Me thinks this photo just screams "Venice!" |
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